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For example, some years ago my cousin decided to have an abortion, and asked me to go with her (she was frightened) even though I don't believe in abortion. I had to choose between my cousins needs and my own values. So, what is a tough decision you had to make?
It seems like we are always faced with hard decisions to make! For me I would have to say that I always put myself last...my hardest decision to make was deciding to live a life for me, that suited me or live a life that suited my family! When i got my degree & wanted to start my business everyone said no...it wouldnt be successful & then when i tried to find out where or how I could make is a successful business I just decided to move back home to the US. I tried to get my ex-husband to work on his job while researching how i could get my license in NY...after him constantly coming home feeling used by his boss & me figuring out that I had to go back to classes in the US after teaching what i did to students, I decided to put my dream, and my life on hold to make his dreams come true. I told him, you know the business...you have been into computers since you were a child...you can have your own business without dealing with your boss anymore if you really wanted to...& so we did...he was the tech, I was the administrator...he handled the physical hand work and going to clients to deal with their computer issues & i handled all the office issues...invoices & phone calls, and having clients fill out the forms while leaving their computers with us. I hated it...I didnt understand much in the business I only had enough money (help from my family) to accomplish one or the other, so I gave up what I wanted for his sake...only to get it thrown in my face and have him destroy the business to the ground. My toughest decision was to give up on my wants & needs to satisfy his...now I can kick myself for doing so...because all i ever hear is you could have, should have would have, if you only thought more about yourself & less about someone else...(here i thought i was being the good wife, trying to make a family business & on the other hand my ex was stealing money from my joint account with my parents for the business w/o telling me and then committing the ultimate betrayal...adultery running the business to the ground! ) So here i am after everything is said & done, no business, no money, no marriage & cant afford to even consider going back to my old profession because i gave up on that 6 years ago & lost my speed for work...so why would anyone even consider hiring me if I havnt touched in 6 years? In this field its about the speed rather then the knowledge I have! Sacrifices for ya!
One o my hardest dicision to make was to choose wherever i wanted to go home or not. 3 months ago I got placed in foster care because things at home were not the best, and once i got used to all this life, to living happy to knowing what it;s like to be a kid I had a choice, to lie to everybody about what was really going on at home and go back and still go trough all the things i was putting up with or to tell the truth to everybody and get help. At first I was going to lie, I wanted to be back home because I was worried about my brother, but then again I tought what I wanted for myself. I choose to tell the truth and whatever happend, happened. And It was a tough decision to make because there were a lot of risks, and sure my stay in foster care will be longer but now at least were all getting help and i know that at the end, when i go back everything will be ok.
this isnt on tht iv alredy made but ive been given the choice of living with my dad or live on my own wwhen my mums dies. unfortunatly she got cancer and i dont want her to go. if i live on my own it would be in the same flat as im in now but it would feeel weird, but if i move ive got to change schools, country.
Are you trying to tell me something Ericson? lol
