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I'm 18. My boyfriend and I make out a lot. When we start, I'm usually laying on top of him. We start out kissing and then he'll pull my shirt up and start rubbing my back and stomach. A little while into it when we get pretty into it, we'll roll over so I'm laying on my back and he's leaning over me (he doesn't lay on top of me because he would probably squish me because I'm little). He'll start rubbing my stomach andd my legs and my butt and back to my stomach. Then he'll make his way up to my breasts. He started just rubbing them through my bra, then recently he's moved under my bra and rubbing my actual breast. While all this is going on, I'll be rubbing and/or scratching his back (he still has his shirt on) and the back of his head, etc. My question is what else can I do? Should I touch something else? If so, what and how should I go about doing that? Any advice will be much appreciated! Thanks!
I was 5 months pregnant and suddenly out of nowhere, got a urinary tract infection. I never had one before so I thought it might have been related to the pregnancy changes.
At 7 months pregnant, my so-called husband did not come home for two nights, did not answer his phone after repeated calls and when he did return home, acted as if he didn’t do anything wrong, as he was “working hard at his office.” He decided to sleep there in order to “get a sales project completed.”
At 8 months pregnant, I got another urinary tract infection, despite having kept myself impeccably clean.
At 9 months pregnant, I had two unexplained flat tires on my VW Jetta. The tow truck driver pulled out two large blades and asked me if I had any enemies.
When in labor, 8 days past my due date, I called my so-called husband to help me, as I needed to go to the hospital. He did not answer 3 of my phone calls so I got my parents to take me to the hospital. While giving birth, he showed up, possessing a strong odor of booze and pink-colored make-up spotted across his collar. My mother acted as if she didn’t notice it, but I did. It was so obvious.
I prayed the whole time I was pushing. I tried to block the smell of his strong liquor and the vision of his sweaty face with his after-sex attire.
After I held a beautiful, blue-eyed baby girl on my chest, l breastfed her, then drank some ice cold water. I realized I was all alone. No one stayed. It was 6:23 am in the morning. I went to sleep.
I think I slept the entire day at the hospital.
Later, a black nurse with shiny hair and glistening eyes smiled at me. Upon waking up, she brought me an ice-cold, 32-ounce cup of juice. Best grape juice I ever had. Her voice was comforting and all-knowing. She held baby Jana in her arms and gently showed me how to hold her while feeding. I was awkward. I cried. The nurse stayed and sensed something was wrong. She actually cared. She started humming in a sincere, soulful manner, as if she held both of us in her arms. She shared a human kindness and love that I had never felt before.
It healed me as I uncontrollably continued to cry. The nurse had a way about her that made me feel like I was close to God. I prayed in my mind as I snuggled with my baby girl.
Three months later, my dad helped move us back to my childhood home. Unfortunately I had to see the cheating with my own eyes before I could leave. I had followed Jana’s so-called father one evening when he left to “go to the gym.”
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Please know that God has mercy. It all worked out OK. My parents helped me raise Jana. I finished college and have a career I love. Although I never had the courage to remarry, I’ve had a few amazing long-term boyfriends. My humble life is interesting, challenging and rich with love for family and friends.
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me and my boyfriend are in the same situation just he is kissing my breasts... you can touch his legs and his face if your not ready to touch his male part... I no my boyfriend likes it when I touch the back of his neck and head and like play with his hair ... he hasnt told me that but he kindof moves my hand there. so if your boyfriend is moving your hand to his back then maybe thats what he is into... but if you are touching his legs he may think you want to go a little further. so just be aware of that... hope I helped ^ ^~Kaitlyn~
I think you’re doing just fine in the touching department, but here’s my advice on the technique. Withhold the rubbing for a little, start slow, experiment with different directions and then have him begging for a deeper touch. If you want to go dirty, wait 10 seconds before you allow either of you to cum to save the best for last.
hunnie.. this could lead to having sex. you should start thinking about are you ready for that? but my advice I said dont have sex. because guys dont like easy girl you know. they like the hard to get stuff. because they wont appreciate it if it is too easy.. but it is your choice.
We have both made it clear we are not going to have sex before we are married. I know that I can stop at any time and I don't have a problem with saying 'no'. And he's not kissing my breasts...yet. So I guess my question is do I just go for it and explore his parts or what?
I do put my hands on the back of his neck and the back of his head and play with his hair. He said he likes that. And I rub his back too. And the position we're in, my arm isn't really long enough to touch his legs. It's just at his belt or maybe a little past that.
If you're unsure, ask him what he likes. Communication is an essential part of any good relationship, and he'll probably appreciate that you care enough to ask, too.
Oh come on people, she’s 18. Why else would you think she’s asking this question as an adult? You think she’s a 5 year old girl who doesn’t know what a penis is?
wrap your legs around him and press into him, and start moving your hips! but thats only if your ready to go farther than that, because then thats just teasing
make sure that you and him are comfortable with it but, if you're sitting on him just rub yourself on his crotch. id not that just lightly rub your hand on it.
make sure that you and him are comfortable with it but, if you're sitting on him just rub yourself on his crotch. id not that just lightly rub your hand on it.
make sure that you and him are comfortable with it but, if you're sitting on him just rub yourself on his crotch. id not that just lightly rub your hand on it.
if possible, I know you said your arms reach his belt, grab his butt. I dont know if it's good advice for all guys but I like it.
make sure that you and him are comfortable with it but, if you're sitting on him just rub yourself on his male part.
make sure that you and him are comfortable with it but, if you're sitting on him just rub yourself on his male part.
If you are not ready for going further please don't because the next step you will find his dick inside your body
DONT LISTEN TO THE PERSON ABOVE ME.. maybe ya'll should watch some cartoons.. :] OR. you could play a game. :]
I know I am not ready for sex. I never said I was. We've both agreed not to have sex before marriage.
If you don't know what to do, and are asking on a website what to do, you are NOT ready for sex honey.
Stick your fingers in his ears and twirl them around. Boys ears are very sensative!
Make sure you've got Protection with you, say, wanna take it to the next level?