Where else can I touch my boyfriend during kissing?

I’m 18. My boyfriend and I make out a lot. When we start, I’m usually laying on top of him. We start out kissing and then he’ll pull my shirt up and start rubbing my back and stomach. A little while into it when we get pretty into it, we’ll roll over so I’m laying on my back and he’s leaning over me (he doesn’t lay on top of me because he would probably squish me because I’m little). He’ll start rubbing my stomach andd my legs and my butt and back to my stomach. Then he’ll make his way up to my breasts. He started just rubbing them through my bra, then recently he’s moved under my bra and rubbing my actual breast. While all this is going on, I’ll be rubbing and/or scratching his back (he still has his shirt on) and the back of his head, etc. My question is what else can I do? Should I touch something else? If so, what and how should I go about doing that? Any advice will be much appreciated! Thanks!

Answer #1

wrap your legs around him and press into him, and start moving your hips! but thats only if your ready to go farther than that, because then thats just teasing

Answer #2

We have both made it clear we are not going to have sex before we are married. I know that I can stop at any time and I don’t have a problem with saying ‘no’. And he’s not kissing my breasts…yet. So I guess my question is do I just go for it and explore his parts or what?

Answer #3

if possible, I know you said your arms reach his belt, grab his butt. I dont know if it’s good advice for all guys but I like it.

Answer #4

If you’re unsure, ask him what he likes. Communication is an essential part of any good relationship, and he’ll probably appreciate that you care enough to ask, too.

Answer #5

hunnie.. this could lead to having sex. you should start thinking about are you ready for that? but my advice I said dont have sex. because guys dont like easy girl you know. they like the hard to get stuff. because they wont appreciate it if it is too easy.. but it is your choice.

Answer #6

I know I am not ready for sex. I never said I was. We’ve both agreed not to have sex before marriage.

Answer #7

Stick your fingers in his ears and twirl them around. Boys ears are very sensative!

Answer #8

If you don’t know what to do, and are asking on a website what to do, you are NOT ready for sex honey.

Answer #9

DONT LISTEN TO THE PERSON ABOVE ME.. maybe ya’ll should watch some cartoons.. :] OR. you could play a game. :]

Answer #10

I do put my hands on the back of his neck and the back of his head and play with his hair. He said he likes that. And I rub his back too. And the position we’re in, my arm isn’t really long enough to touch his legs. It’s just at his belt or maybe a little past that.

Answer #11

me and my boyfriend are in the same situation just he is kissing my breasts… you can touch his legs and his face if your not ready to touch his male part… I no my boyfriend likes it when I touch the back of his neck and head and like play with his hair … he hasnt told me that but he kindof moves my hand there. so if your boyfriend is moving your hand to his back then maybe thats what he is into… but if you are touching his legs he may think you want to go a little further. so just be aware of that… hope I helped ^ ^~Kaitlyn~

Answer #12

Make sure you’ve got Protection with you, say, wanna take it to the next level?

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