How to handle being torn in this dispute?

You shouldn’t just go over there and “throw him out” like your little girl says, but you should definately have your ex and her husband sit down and talk it out with you. Your daughter shouldn’t feel unsafe in her own home and you have to protect her like you said. Whatever happens, try to keep it civil between all of the adults involved and don’t bring your own issues into it, focus on your daughter. Good luck!

If my child asked me then I would take into consideration whats going on? Is it so bad that its really bothering my daughter so bad she shouldnt see it hear it. Is this going to cause a later problem with my daughter I would have a talk with my ex see what is the deal or maybe talk to him man to man!! tell him he wants to argue with her then to make sure my daughter doesnt see it. as for your girl your child should always come first never a women when your old and cant do for yourself you will wish you were different sorry if I affended you but thats my oppinion love hope it works out

It’ hard to decide,isn’t? Maybe you can have a deep talk with your G.F about what you really think.