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Is it normal to be tight down there?
So my boyfriend has been fingering me for a little while now but just with one finger, well tonight he tried to use two but he couldn’t. It hurt me too bad, I don’t even know if he got it in or couldn’t. I just knew it hurt really bad. How do I get it not to hurt so bad? If I cant fit two fingers in how and I going to fit his penis in when I’m ready for sex? Is this a normal problem girls have or is there something wrong? Also it kind of hurts when he fingers me, is this normal? Or am I not aroused enough? If that’s the case does anyone have any suggestions on how to help that, if they have had the same problem? I used to get turned on a lot but now that I actually need to, it’s harder it seems like.
Don’t worry, it’s normal. It hurts most girls until they are stretched enough to fit a penis. Just be gentle and use a LOT of lube. Ask him to massage you gently and work slowly from one finger to two fingers, (or you do it yourself) day after day, and when you’re stretched enough to fit his penis, then go for the real thing. But remember - fingers that go in there need to have their nails clipped and filed; use a lot of lube (I recommend Astroglide, it’s the best choice), and RELAX all your muscles. It will still hurt the first time, judging by what you’re saying (I was the same by the way), so all you can do is prepare yourself, practice stretching and relaxing and know that it will take some time and exercise before it stops hurting. For me it took several months of sex after the first time to stop hurting, but maybe it will be better for you… And really, I can’t stress enough the importance of lube… I wish somebody had told ME back in the day, haha… Good luck and have fun! :)
are all girls to tight? like.. if you want have sex for the first time will it fit or wont it? because im feel like im ready for my first time and im just scared that if I go to do it , then it wont fit
It’s very normal. I had the same problem. You may not be turned on enough. When you do have sex use a lot of lube it will help. If you are turned on and it still hurts, he maybe going a little to fast for you. Ask him to go slow.
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