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So about 2 weeks ago I broke up with my girlfriend. She was actually gonna break up with me that day, so she wasnt too broken up. We didnt talk for about a week and a half, and I tried ignoring her bcause I thought she hated me. Well about 3-4 days ago we finally imed each other and the subject of our past relationship came up. She asked if I was at all sad we broke up, and I said no. BIG mistake. She imed back saying that she still had feelings for me, and wanted 2 get back 2gether. I said I wanted 2 stay friends (which I do) but I told her to stay single bcause I might like her in the future. Now, I have an extremely strange control over being able to like someone or not (I originally went out with her bcause I thot that we were made 4 each other so I directed my emotions towards her) and recently I've noticed that im starting 2 unconsciously make myself like her. I dont want 2 force myself into this relationship, but at the same time it might b easier to just give in. Since summer break is almost here, I figure ill just b friends with her now and make a descision at the beginning of the school year. What do y'all think?
ummm sorry 2 burst ya bubble but you cant control how you feel about people. you seem 2 like this girl, but when your with her you get bored quickly as it is easy for you to get close to her. if you like her then go for it, however if you dont like her and she likes you but you want to stay friends then I suggest you do nothing as you'll damage the friendship forever and if you care about her at all then you wont want to drag her along
To be or not to be is a far more important question. Stick to solving that one and forget about the chick duder.
well thanx for the advice buddy but im sincerely not kidding I can control who I like.
