To do it or not to do it?

Okay, im 17 and im a christian… And believe in not having sex before marriage (parents noe about my boyfriend and luv him a lot, but always remind me how angry they’d be if I were to do anything “naughty”). In 2 more days it’ll be my 18th month with my boyfriend. We were real close to doing it before… But he noticed something wrong and that I wasn’t ready… So he didn’t force it. He found out, I was a christian, and excepted the fact that im unable to have sex before marriage. I really love him tho and wonder if I should take it to the next step for our 18th month? Should I or should I not?

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Answer #1

Well I’m not religious by any means because I believe in going after anything that will make you happy without taking away anybody else’s happiness.

On the topic of sex though. I know people make it out to be the end of the world for some and nothing for others. So of course there has to be a median for everything. Like steph said, make this YOUR choice not anyone elses.

Answer #2

All I have to say is, don’t do anything unless you truly want to do it. Don’t let others impact your choice when it comes to something like this.

Answer #3

I think that if you really feel like he’s the one then do it. My girlfriend was in the same situation as well. We know that we are going to be together forever so we decided to it. But its all up to when your ready for it, if you dont feel its right then wait it out im sure he’ll understand. Noone is rushing you. good luck and I hope you do what ever you feel is right

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