How can I become more confident around girls?

I’m a guy… I always get nervous and tongue twisted when I talk face to face with pretty girls… but if like its in MSN…we can talk a lot… but face to face… I tend to be very quiet and shy… why am I like this…? What should iIdo to gain confidence?

Answer #1

thanks for nothing. that girl got a restraining order for taking your advice

Answer #2

Well, I think it would be a natural response to beautiful girls. I mean, they are really pretty right? So you wouldn’t want to mess up and say something silly! Its okay! Girls don’t mind guys who are quiet and shy. Most of the sweetest guys are this way, so there’s a high chance you wont say something insulting. I’ve realized if you over think it too much, you’ll psych yourself out before you say a word. If you want to gain more confidence, I would suggest starting small, just saying hello or good morning to those pretty girls, even the not so pretty ones, just to get comfortable talking to girls. Work yourself up to “How are you?” or other small phrases like that. Take your time, its obvious you have a sweet tempered nature, so you’ll be fine :)

Answer #3

ok, this is very simple. grow a pair and strut your stuff! girls love guys that are confident and controlling. they like to have hands on activity, so if you really want to gain some confidence, find a girl your realy interested with and take them for a test drive. be sexy! ;)

Answer #4

First thing-DON’T act too confident, girls don’t always like that.Think of something sensible to talk about with her, smile, look at her and listen carefully. Keep doing this and it will be easier, don’t act eager. :)

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