just a thought..

I don’t feel like I need my boyfriend’s password and he doesn’t feel like he needs mine. I’d be offended if he asked for my password as if I were trying to hide something. I have nothing to hide, but I don’t think I’d give it to him because I don’t like the idea of it. He can go on my facebook if he wants to through my computer or my phone if he wants to. We know the passwords to each other’s phones, but that’s so that we can use each other’s phones if we need to, not so that we can snoop through each other’s text messages or anything. I have access to my boyfriend’s facebook just through his computer, but I don’t go through it. I trust him.

janice u have a point BUT keep in mind u and mike have a LONG term relationship and even thinking about marriage but for a 2 month relationship i honestly dont think its necessary.

I’ve got nothing to hide, but I like my privacy in some things.. If he asked if tell him that..

ya i understand what you mean like you trust each other enough that you don’t need to ya i was kinda feel like he dident trust me but just wanted to see what other people thought about it

ya thats kinda how i feel but i dont think i would ever go on my bfs but he hasent gaven it to me since i havent asked like i feel just being open to do it makes me feel better like he trusts me but i doubt i would ever go on his i have his ps3 account password since we play games but i have never once looked through his messages since i trust him but he has looked through mine he goes on my facebook alot n asks like who im talking to like how ik them but ik hes that way cause he has been cheated on

ya i was kinda thinking that like you have no privacy if he can look through everything

I don’t feel like it’s necessary, but if it makes either one of you more comfortable then it’s fine. My boyfriend has access to everything of mine (not by my choice, he just happens to have guess everything.) and I don’t have any of his information on anything, but I don’t really care because I have nothing to hide and I’m sure he doesn’t either.

I said it wasn’t necessary I don’t even think its necessary in my relationship bit it just makes me happy haha.

Lol i dont have anything to hide. But i like to have my own personal space. I think its stupid giving each other passwords for stuff lol. Its kind of too much for me, i’d feel like they don’t trust me. I guess it can increase the trust thing but i wouldn’t mind having him look over my shoulder while i use Facebook or my phone, but no matter how long my relationship may be, i wouldn’t give him my password. Thats just my opinion and my thoughts:3 haha password is just way too much for me. I like my personal space :)

I like my space. o-o I’ve never been in a relationship, but I don’t think I would want to give him my password for FA or for all my emails xD I guess it wouldn’t matter much unless he was some kind of freaky control freak and got all upset about everything and anything but anyway. If you feel comfortable with that and he doesn’t start going through everything of yours because he doesn’t trust you then good for you xD

Don’t mind, you can totally go on there. It does feel a little weird though I must admit. :)

:/ I don’t think it’s good if it’s out of distrust. But I suppose sometimes it could help. With my boyfriend and I it just kind of happened, he’d ask me to help him send an email or check the numbers in his bank account and end up giving me all his passwords and the other way around too. If he was cheated on I think it was probably out of insecurity.

Yeah, it’s just weird. I don’t like feeling like someone is going through my stuff, like they don’t trust me or anything. He should be able to respect my boundaries, and I’ll respect his.