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okayy.. basically, my bestfriend screwed me over. I lost 3 of my closest friends because of her. one of them I dont mind not having anymore but the other 2 mean the world to me. I really need a way to fix things and gain my friendship back between me and the 2 other guys. What happend was, she made up a bunch of lies about me and told everyone and now no one trusts me, when I didnt do a thing. everytime I try talking to one of them, they say… I don’t know who 2 believe and im just like…uhmm ok? and there all like what she told everyone sounds true. The point is.. everything she told them was complete BS and I dont know what to do. everyone that used to be friends with her, told me that they got screwed over by her in the past, which is why they arent friends anymore. Now I see why. shes a complete backstabber. She was my bestfriend for 2 years, and she practically lived at me house. I don’t know what to do. I really need help with this Please. this is seriously the worst summer of my life so far… HELP!!!

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Answer #1

I’ve been some where like that… you need to keep trying to talk to them sit them both down in a private place and say ok waht did you hear about me I tell you that truth and that other girl fu#k her hold ya head up high and make more friends than her.. comment me if you need more help hope that helps.. plzz answer my question the story one plzz &&. thank you

Answer #2

iv33 b33n in daaa sam33 ding…

k s000 what I thnk you shudd d00 izz ask t3hh tlk 2 your 2 fri3nss you car33 b0utt in priviate and t3ll thm how you f33l. I don’t thnk you shud d00 it in public because thn th3y will juss thnk your d0in it 2 g3t attenti0n and mak3 urs3lf l00k bttr…trust m3hh I tri3dd that before. :( s00 basically juss t3ll thm what you juss saidd 0n h3a. t3ll thm “guyss you m3an the wh0lee world t3h m3. Iff that ws 3vn tru3, wud I evn still care t0 b friens wit u?? iv33 been friens wit you gyss 4 years, months and you shud kn0 m3 bttr thn that. I l0v33 you gys and you shudd kn0 thts n0t tru3. I don’t lie” . thts what I thnk you shudd say…0r cl0s33 2 that. juss l3tt thm kn0 how you f33l b0ut thm. and if there rlyy your b3stfri3nss th3yy wud understand and I thnk thy will hun ^^ I thnk you shud stand up 2 urself. XD and it shudnt matter what anyone els thnks 0r your 0tha fri3n cuzz what that girl dd ws veri3 unnessacery and sh3 0nli33 dd it 2 g3t attenti0n =P and it shudnt matter as l0ngg as your tru3 friens beli3v3 u ^_^

Answer #3

I think you should try to do something nice for these 2 people not buy them and expensive gift or anything just get them somthing nice to let them know how much they mean to you do not pressure them to theyll probably need time to get their head straight I personaly don agreed wit ladybug520 I dont think you should say something bad about them bcause it dosent make you a better persont be the better person by ignoring her and try to get your friends respect hope that helps

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