Which one of us is right?

okay so I know this boy..and he asked me out & I said no..I do like him like A LOT but the thing is, I’ve been in so many stupid relationships and I’m scared of getting hurt..and I told him that too. and he said ok I understand. so we were talking and he always say I love you and stuff to me, so obviously I say it back ‘cause I DO love him. then finally he got fed up and pissed off ‘cause he said “k you know what I want a straight answer. YES or NO!” and I said “no..” and he said “then don’t tell me you love me!” and well he says it first, and I’m going to be honest back..and now he won’t talk to me. whos right? ..who’s wrong?

Answer #1

Love is too easily thrown around. This type of situation is not love! You like each other. Love takes time to grow. Its being with someone youve shared many memories/feelings with. Someone you have been in a commited relationship with, and have grown to love!

Most boys dont handle rejection very well. If they like you, they either want you to be their gf, or nothing! If he says he understands, then he would be more understanding, but hes not. Dont feel bad. If you didnt think he was a good choice for you (which i assume hes not, since you did say no) then i would leave him alone, until he changes his attitude!

Answer #2

i think u should say yes cuz he might not be the same but he should not be mad

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