This Is A Very serious Situation!! "Big And Scary Family issues"

Do you know what else is going on for her right now? Maybe there’s an underlying problem. If you can find out what that is and confront her with it, that may help.

Worked with my little brother and me so I hope it helps

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Oh, she’ll learn.

she’ll come running back for help and then you say “told ya so”

Speak to someone she doesn’t understand whats happening

It’s because you called her a wh*re. You make it come across like you are against her. She doesn’t see that you want to help her. It just looks like you wanna call her names and point your finger in her face. Maybe if you showed her that you care about her choices in life and about her safty, she will listen to you. And I agree with finaris. There has to be something else going on. You have to look deeper and see what is troubling her.

.rainbow.

does her parents know of her sexual activity? They should be made aware if not and if they dont, they need a really good wake up call on their daughter and if they do know and arent dealing with their 14 yr old CHILD having sex, thats sad, some other adult then needs to step in!

welll, try talking to her again. without insulting her. maybe she gets angry when people accuse her, maybe her family is going through a tough time and shes puttting it and showing it through sex with guys. but if she gets out of control anymore… maybe if you want to you could talk with the more down to earth parent of hers, that wouldnt flip out. she might get very mad at you, but if you want to save her it could help. hope this helped.

Ok, I understand that you told the truth by saying she is a whre… but if you were 14… would you really want your cousin telling you you’re a whre? I know I wouldnt. I think you could of handle it in a more mature way…because that would of really upset her…and I probably one of the main reasons she doesnt want to talk to you. Just let her b. Just leave her for a while and if you notice her continuing this…talk to her again. But tell her calmly, that you want to help her, because you love her and dont want to get hurt. I know it can be difficult not to just blurt out the words you a really thinking of, but you have to understand…that this is going to hurt her too.