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This had bothered me all night...

My best friend of almost 5 year text message me last night and ask if I Had feelings for her fiancee. She got mad because I didn’t respond right away since at the time I was making dinner but when I got to it I felt like she was accusing me. I replied that I don’t and knowing the way my father had treated my mother (he cheated on with one of her friends) and she knew this, told her that I don’t do that to friends, best friends none the less. She wrote that it was a feeling and after I repeatedly denied this, she said in in end ok, no worries.

What has bothered me is that all night I couldn’t sleep thinking that she thought so low of me that I do that. I know she has been hurt by a previous relationship that ended that way, so for awhile I let it slide, but over the course of the night, it started to bother me. Am I just taking it too serious or is it justified that I feel this hurt?

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Answer #1

Eh, stop worrying. She was just asking. She’s like me. I’ve been hurt too a lot! (I’m 14 tho) lol. And I tend to ask my questions if they like my boyfriend or something. But its just to make sure. She didn’t think low of you, and she most likely trusts you not to do anything silly, because you had a past, with your parents, which I’m sorry to hear anbout. But cheer up. Its all okay. Don’t worry about it.

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