This girl that wont leave me alone

Sounds like typical high school/middle school girl drama. Unfortunately, you probably didn’t do anything but exist to make you a target for this girl’s bullying. You could confront her and ask her what makes her act that way. Talking things out is always the first course of action you should take.

However, if this girl has taken her antagonizing to a physical level you need to report her, or at least talk to someone. A teacher you like and trust, the principle, your guidance counselor (especially) are the people you want to take this problem to. The good news is that schools have really strict rules against bullying, of all sorts. Even cyber bullying, so if this girl finds you on line on your Myspace or Facebook or something, you can tell the school about that too.

You may not want to tell anyone, for concern of being a snitch or whatever, but it’s important for you and for this girl that you don’t allow that behavior to continue.

Unfortunately she isn’t going away. I would confront and say “why are you pestering me?” If she doesn’t have a valid answer, which she won’t, you need to stick up for yourself and say “you need to back off” in your own defensive way of course. I would then tell the school counselor of the situation. Bullying isn’t accepted anywhere in schools anymore and they will talk to her. If she tries to hit you make sure people witness it and beware and block her for your protection but try not to hit back. Hopefully she will get the clue you aren’t afraid of her. She wants to see you afraid. Don’t let her see this. I had to deal with being in a rough school too. I had some girl bch slap me out of nowhere. So I bch slapped her back. She tried to get her girlfriends to make me scared and they came and asked me did I hit her. I said it’s between me and her and nobody else. They didn’t know what to say to that and left me alone. I did get scared that I would be in trouble for hitting back because it was in self defense. You need to tell a counselor before she tries to do anything so you can have a back-up at school about what is going on. In case you do fight back in self defense.

well she’s already messing with you so she is obviously trying to make you feel bad about urself so you should just ignore her and dont talk to her or about her 2 anyone cause they could go back and tell her. If I were you I would try not 2 even look at her so she doesn’t get mad. I hate when people don’t like you and you didn’t even do anything to them. I just think it’s stupid

wow! this is somewhere I know you don’t wanna be. Try to talk to them and call them out. ask her “why do you hate me?” I’m sorry to say this but most likely the only way you can get rid of this problem is to report her to the principle( she if she picks on other kids, If she does leave a note for the principle and leave it anonymous) or fight her. I have had these problem and had to fight my way out. but if you wanna let it flow enemies sometimes become friends.

I once had a problem with a dude who tried to kick my A** just because someone told him I did somethin with his girlfriend (which I didnt do, I just hung out with her like 3 times). and ever since then he always tried to start a fight with me, even tho he knows I didnt do anything. so what I did was - on the very last day of 11th grade I “hurt” him by breakin the side windows of his car and flattened one of his car’s wheels. he never found out who it was but at least its sweet REVENGE :) do somethin like that. it will make you feel better from the inside. or just change schools.