What can I do about this mean girl?

K so she is super concieted and taking credit for other peoples work. And she so mean and she’s always pushing people instead of saying “excuse me” and she hurts ppl. And the reason is cuz she’s starting to do it to my friends. Gosh . And my friends don’t wanna tell on her cuz that would seem immature for our age XP

Answer #1

Mean girl much! Do everything back at her, taste of her own medicine… but then that would be that quote, 2 lefts don’t make a right… People like that you really can’t do much about, their like that for a reason.

Answer #2

i dont care is shes insecure. or anything else . im insecure and i dont take ppls work i dont push ppl im not mean (well once in a while) lol but still like me and my friends have just been sick of her

Answer #3

children are raised differently, maybe more stuff has happened to her in her life, and where shes thinks nothings wrong with what she’s doing..

Answer #4

It’s not immature to stand up for yourself. Don’t let this girl do that to you or your friends because she’s going to keep doing it since no one is telling her to stop. If you’re too afraid, tell a teacher or someone you trust. Like an older sister heheheh

Answer #5

im not afraid . i would punch her if she got me mad (well more mad

Answer #6

You do not have to sink to her level. Come at it from a higher place. You are more mature than her. Avoid her. Avoid her like the plaugue. You and your friends dont need her, she has nothing to offer you. Hell, she is already occupying to much of your brain as it is. Go where the good energy is. Avoid the bad energy. Go where the love is, quit wasting your time and energy on this person.

Answer #7

Telling on her is not immature. Or confront her and tell her that she is not hiding her insecurities with her behavior.

Answer #8

I would love to tell you to punch her, but I’m going to be a good role model and say not to… Because violence is not the answer :) I’m known for having a really sharp tongue and words can hurt just as much as a punch to the face. Stick up for yourself, but don’t start a physical fight because the situation may escalate.

Answer #9

That girl exist for a reason. May she was a gauge to your patience. Make sense. :)

Answer #10

Well the higher road would be in attempting to befriend her and find out why she really acts the way she does. Whatever it is she’s definitely not very happy with herself or she wouldn’t be acting the way she is. The other option is to ignore her and let her own actions follow their course. If it gets too out of hand then your friends will have to ether talk to their parents or teachers about her.

Answer #11

Uuuuuuuuugggh that word shows up again”immature”.

I’m pretty sure it’s not child like to stand up for yourselves. What shes doing is immature. Tell her to grow up out of that phase cause your not her mama and your not going to cut her and slack.

Answer #12

Uuuuuuuuugggh that word shows up again”immature”.

I’m pretty sure it’s not child like to stand up for yourselves. What shes doing is immature. Tell her to grow up out of that phase cause your not her mama and your not going to cut her and slack.

Answer #13

Think of who some people are that you know she has shoved, or hurt, or stolen credit for good work from. Are some of them people who you know are generally peaceful, who are not easily provoked to lose their temper? If so, gather a few of them for a little conversation about what you can do together to help remedy this situation. See if they will agree to take part in this plan: Go to her together, as a small group, in a firm but non-threatening manner, and say something like, “You have been acting mean toward us, physically threatening or hurting some of us, and stealing credit for our work. We are here to let you know we will not accept this behavior from you anymore. If there is something troubling you, let us know, and maybe we can help, or at least hear you out. But we will not allow you to continue to mistreat us or our friends or anyone else.” If you are angry, it’s ok to let her hear that, but make sure you have first gotten everyone’s clear commitment not to approach her with hostility and not to threaten or attack her in any way, verbally or physically. I cannot predict how she will respond, but I’m certain that something will shift away from the pattern you have described. At the very least, even if she tries to escalate, you will all have found your voice and your strength together, and will no longer feel like victims. That will make you much better able to see and consider together (or individually) what other steps you could take, if further action is necessary.

Answer #14

be confident and tell her off.. be mean back

Answer #15

Slap her :)

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