The parents have found out

Just tell people that you’re happy and show them if you can by being out in public together. But be careful still. you said this guy has been awful to you in the past. He could do it again, and maybe your parents and guy friend have a bad feeling about the man or know something you don’t and they’re just trying to protect you. Why don’t you ask them what they think about it?

what has this guy done to change his behavior. It should be a BIG red flag to you that your parents and close friends disapprove. the don’t disapprove because they want you to be unhappy. I don’t know what “awful” things he’s done to you, but I hope “growing up” isn’t the only change he’s made. I hope he’s got some counciling, or rehab, or behaviour management classes at least. If he really cares for you, then he should care about what your loved ones think of the situation, they also want what is best for you. He should be willing to make some drastic lifestyle changes.

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. It is very rare that people change, but when they do, its because of an emotion or psycological catalyst. I hope you can understand through the blinding light of renewed love. I won’t say best of luck, because your destiny is up to you. Take charge and do what you know is right.