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The best way to ask this girl out?

Ok this really cute girl from school I sometimes talk to. I have her phone number, I have not called her and when I texted her I did not get a reply. I have not tried much but besides the point…she is almost 16 and I am 17 and apperntly she has never had a boyfriend. I was told by someone her reason for that was she was to care free and thats why she is still single. Do most girls that age want a boyfriend?? I have hung out with her after school but we always chill with her and a friend of hers. I am going to ask her to hang out when she is buy her self so we can go hang out just us two. When I do that, what is the best way to ask her out? I am not to sure because I have only had one real girl friend and we were set up so I did not have to do much asking. Should I just ask her out of the blue, or lead up to it in a convo, but how?

Lol any advice for me?

Thanks

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Answer #1

As far as most girls wanting a boyfriend at that age it’s totally depends on the girl. As far as asking her out, I actually would stay away from it. When you in high school and college there isn’t really much “asking out” and dating, from my experience. A lot of girls tend to feel threatened and can get scared off when you ask them out, out of the blue. Especially if there was no flirting or anything going on. Almost 100% of my hookups and relationships in high school and college came from hanging out with girls at parties and events. Young girls are really attracted to guys that are really fun and the life of the party. Note: this doesn’t mean guys that get drunk and high. Actually getting drunk and high isn’t good for picking up chicks.

So, I’d find out what parties and things she does on the weekend and start mixing it up with her and her friends. There has to be a natural progression to things with girls and you’ll scare them off if you ask them out most of the time. Let me know if you have any other questions. Would be happy to help!

Answer #2

don’t ask her out just yet. I think what you sholud do when your on a date is hold her hand or put your arm around her neck and at the end of the date, kiss her on the cheek and then leave. don’t do anything drastic. let her know you like her, but without showing your desperate. goodluck : )

Answer #3

Go with your feelings and ask her out, what have you got to loose?

Answer #4

lol thats some killer advice dude! any other way we can chat besides this site? more advice needed haha

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