Teasing this guy?

K, so I have this guy friend and we talk a lottt, like all the time and were friends. But hes my best friends ex. And she kept asking him if he liked me so finally he said yes. Yeah, he tells me a lot that he thinks im really pretty and how im nice and funny and everything but I just want to stay friends. Like I do like him but my best friend would be mad so we both know its pointless to like each other.. He keeps asking me if we can hang out soon, and I don’t know what to say because I feel like ill be a “tease” seeing as I know he likes me but I wont admit to liking him. He doesnt know I know for sure, but I know everyone will get mad that I hang out with him knowing he likes me? If this makes any sense to you.. Please reply with advice on how I should handle this situation. Thanks.

Answer #1

ok, been in this situation before. You alway’s have to maintain loyalty to your friends, because in the end, they will be the ones there for you. Unless you think your friend would backstab you. But I’ve been the guy friend trying to get with the girl. And out of experience, please don’t lead him on if you have no intentions of dating him. This one girl fcked my head up bad, Because for years she kept leading me on and I just kept focusing my attention on her thinking that today will be the day, or tomarrow, and before I knew it I actually wasted about 4 years trying to get a girl that I never did. We still hang out but I seriously hate the bich for what she did to me. Don’t put that guy through the same, he might not be as much of a sucker as I was though.

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