What tattoo to get for my miscarried baby?

I was one month pregnant and was about to go and have an ultrasound because of complications with my baby… when i had a miscarrage. It was a horrible experience, but i knew she would have been so special. Her father and i decided to call her Alesana… and i would like to get that tattooed on myself in some beautiful calligraphy, but i would like something more then that, something that would symbolise her not reaching her full potential but her father and i loving her unconditionally non the less. Any help would be appreciated…. no hate please because i am young.

Answer #1

:( i am sorry for your loss :(…. this is so sad… maybe you could get a baby with wings above her name ( i kno it doesnt sound very original :/) or maybe something to do with a baby foot or hand with wings. Or maybe a sentance saying : Proud mommy of an angel. I guess its hard finding the perfect memorial tattoo, but i hope you find one really soon :)

Answer #2

Ty, i really like your ideas <3 it is sad, its times like these where i dont believe everything happens for a reason… there should be no reason why an innocent childs life should be taken away from two parents who love her. But i guess i just want to remember that she would have been special. And thankyou for not hating because i am young xx

Answer #3

well i cant hate just because someones young, in my opinion it depends on the individuals choice. I personally wouldnt have wanted to have a baby yet but maybe you decided otherwise… :) You might be really young, but if u believed you would have managed, had the support and love… why not. We cant judge people for things like these if we dont kno them nor even kno their background. Hope all goes well and take care :) xx

Answer #4

Hi Angel,

I’m really sorry about your loss. I had a similar experience, 6 years ago. I was 3 months pregnant and then lost the baby. The doc told me that the baby (I don’t know what gender it was) would not have been healthy. Some of the inner organs weren’t developed correctly, so it died of the malfunctions.
Somewhat more than a year later, I was pregnant with a healthy baby, My little boy is now 3 and turning 4 in summer.

That’s life. I painted a canvas for my lost baby, it’s a closed rosebud - just a bud, not a full flower - and the stipe is broken, just below the bud. It’s now on my wall. And no one knows why I painted it, except me.

Answer #5

Omg i am so sorry, and i can feel you pain. Its a horrible experiene that no one should go through. I think its really beautiful that you painted that picture and i am so happy about your baby now. Give him a kiss from me and make sure you worship him because i now know how positivley amazing the girft of life is <3

Answer #6

I just gave him your kiss. He protested, because he’s very busy playing with his wooden railway. ;-)

Answer #7

aahh man so sorry for your lose but everything happens within purpose and what is meant to happen is gon’ happen.. but i agree with what ^^ said…its going to be hard because those kind of things scar you for life but let this lesson be well taught and govern every aspect,…..

Answer #8

A miscarriage to me is nature’s abort!on. You shouldnt feel badly, but that’s my opinion.

Anyways- m into grave art and symbols, have you ever seen a tree stump shaped grave? Well, a tree stump symbolizes that the person died young, they didnt get to be fully grown, now I dont know if you’d want a tree stump tattoo, but I bet if you went to the right artist it could come out pretty great. Maybe a some baby’s breath flowers and the whole thing done in black and white, perhaps on the back of your shoulder?

Answer #9

Have a cartoon characters saying like winnie the pooh has some really good quotes “If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together keep me in your heart, I’ll stay there forever”

Answer #10

I’m sorry for your loss dear. I’ve been through a miscarriage as well years ago at 2 months into my pregnancy. Keep your head up though - i now have 2 beautiful children and had no complications with either of their pregnancies, so there is hope.

As for tattoo ideas here’s some i like: An angel baby with wings , search on google its an adorable tattoo. Baby hands or feet with her name above it and the date you lost her below it. A pink teddybear with wings behind it and her name below on a banner. Butterflies with her name tattoed in the middle of them Wings with her name in the middle. You can add a halo on top and a banner below that says “Mommy and Daddys Angel”

Answer #11

aww! I am veryy sorry for your loss.. my mom went through the samething.. but this idea is a great one! :)

Answer #12

thank u Mayra :)

Answer #13

Aww im sorry little one… but thank you, like actually means alot to me

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