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Talking when you shouldnt.

The other night while out I had a few too much to drink and my mouth got very loose so to speak. I think that I may have let someone down and told information that I shouldn’t have.( they were not there at the time) usually I hear from this person every day but I havn’t heard from them since and am now worried that the person I told has gone running back to them and repeated things. However - as I cannot remember properly - I cannot ask the person I told as it would then be like accusing them (not good if they havn’t said anything -and I’m not exactly sure what I said - just have vague reccolections) and I can’t ask the person involved as they would then know that I blabbed ( not good for our friendship which I happen to cherish) even if nothing has been said so what now? Do I just ride it out or do I ask them?

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You can ask the person you talked to that night if you said anything you should have regretted or anything dumb. This way you’re not accusing anyone of anything. If he says you didn’t, then give the person that you haven’t heard from in awhile a ring and just be normal and friendly and ask where he’s been or what he’s been up to. If he sounds strange to you, then ask if something is wrong.

You don’t have to admit anything, and you dont have to accuse anyone or assume anything this way.

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