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Struggling with Pregnancy
Hello. I am 14 getn rdy to b 15 im pregnant by my 19 yr old boyfrd, and I dont know what to do. I dont have a job or a car and my family arent the richest people!! Not only that I havent told my mom :[ But I asked what IF I were to get pregnant and she told me to shut up and said shed make me get an abortion but im scared to get 1 and dont want 1 ALSO I don’t want my boyfrd to go to jail he’s the most imp thing to me. Im seeking help, Please help. Thankz
I can’t tell you what to do but I’d recommend that you do tell your mother, soon. She may take it hard but she will be able to eventually handle the situation and she will know how to tell your father.
It may take her a few days before she gets away from what is best for her and starts working for what is best for you. Just try to be calm whenever you are talking to your parents about it.
Below is information about abortion (go to page 2 for procedures):
http://contraception.about.com/od/contraceptionfailure/a/aboutabortion.htm
If you want more information with picture info from the anti-abortion point of view, Fun Mail me and I’ll send you a youtube link.
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I’m not going to tell you what to do because that is solely your decision. You are still a kid and you did a very grown up thing by having sex but come on we all wanted to be adults when we were your age. Ask your self if you have an abortion is it something that you can live with and if you decide to have your child will you be able to raise him/her. Babies cost an awful lot. If you decide to have your child you may want to consider adoption. I suggest you weigh out all of your options before making any decision. If you can’t talk to your mom talk to someone you trust.
You need to tell your parents because well sorry but it is going to show at some point. You had sex… grow up and deal with it. You cant hide any more… Whether you get an abortion or not is up to you… As for your boyfriend, he should have known better than to sleep with a 14 year old. I can only hope your parents do the right thing.
whatever you do, dont get an abortion… it will be really hard but you can get through it… the baby doesnt have to die because of a mistake you made… if you have to, you can put he/she up for adoption… I dont really know what to say… but dont let the baby die… =(
I have different advice I had a baby at 15 to a man who was 23 he left and my family sucks well now im 26 and my son is almost 11 he is amazing im not gonna say it wasnt hard cause it was but it was worth it if you have any questions or need to talk let me know
get an abortion my sister was pregnant at age 16 and was in the same situation with a 19 year old and trust its a lot…too much to even type all im sayin is a baby will ruin your whole life and your hopes and dreams…GET AN ABORTION!!!
I was going to say.. you should of thought bout that before, but that just wouldnt help at all…my advice? the hell with it!! if you cant trust your mom with that? who are you going to trust.. I would also say you get an abortion, I mean… seriously, once you get a kid, at such an early age.. damn…its over…
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