When will I ever get over him?

Thanks ! But you are not fat or ugly either ! (: And I’ve tried to get another guy but I fail at that plus all the guys at my school are jerks haha.

Well First Erase him completely out of your life ,2 Find a betta guy ;D your to pretty for him.3.Just Live your life lifes to short to be wating it on some jerk like him

guys dont define if ur fat and ugly. we are fat wen r doctors say we r over weight and we are ugly wen we are selfish and inconsiderate. ur simply sad. its hard getting over ceratin guys but thats cuz were girls so we hav alot of emotional attachments. dont force uself to get over him with other guys but simply take time for you. make you ur only concern. hang out with firends, bake, clean,start studyn more, join yoga or start meditating or looking closer into a faith of some kind. dont think tht other guys r the definition of ur happiness. take time off and focass on u. i dont even bother with guys. they ask me out and i say no cuz im not emotionaly ready to deal with that. plus i dont hav the effort for it eaither. im doin me and thts all. ill focas on guys in college lol :P

It may take some time.Thats just kinda how it is with girls.ive been exactly through what youre going through..Just try to go out and enjoy yourself.eventually youll get over him..and it may take some time before you find someone else…Just relax and do things that make you happy.things will work out for the best over time.

It’s been a over a year …. I’ve liked him since June last year (2010) and we broke up september 21st 2010. I can’t get over him ….

Your gorgeoussss, dont stress the could haves, if it should have, it would have=)

How do you get over him? Easy….. don’t give him the time of day. You can’t get over him if you go on his facebook and stalk him and live in the past. You are still trying to live in the relationship when it has failed. You gotta look to the future and leave him in the past. He didn’t want you. His loss. Take this time to work on you, do things you like, enjoy yourself, be who you wanna be without having someone to hold you back. Yeah, easier said than done, but if you focus on forgetting him he will be forgotten. Plus think of it as this is your chance for an upgrade. Because let me tell you this, Love is a learning experience, and with more knowledge of love the better a relationship becomes.

im going thro,the,same,thing right now except my guy also txtd & called this girl! At 1st I hated the grl, but thn I realized it was all my boy… He cuda stoped if he really wanted to.but He didnt love me enough not to do it or to stop doing it… I deserve better lol his own dad, dads gf, & his aunt all say I am too good for him, & im starting to see that now. & u shud realize that too it will b hard, trust me I kno 2years w/ my guy &countless hours, nights &days of crying. U need to move on. Try talking to him less & less each day & just think about wut he did &also that u can feel soooo much happier than u ever did w/ him w/ an even better guy… & one day ull look back & say wow I waisted alot of time over him? Lol why the hell did I ever do that? Best wishes to u & ur future, b strong! Hangout w/ friends too it realllly helps!

im going thro,the,same,thing right now except my guy also txtd & called this girl! At 1st I hated the grl, but thn I realized it was all my boy… He cuda stoped if he really wanted to.but He didnt love me enough not to do it or to stop doing it… I deserve better lol his own dad, dads gf, & his aunt all say I am too good for him, & im starting to see that now. & u shud realize that too it will b hard, trust me I kno 2years w/ my guy &countless hours, nights &days of crying. U need to move on. Try talking to him less & less each day & just think about wut he did &also that u can feel soooo much happier than u ever did w/ him w/ an even better guy… & one day ull look back & say wow I waisted alot of time over him? Lol why the hell did I ever do that? Best wishes to u & ur future, b strong! Hangout w/ friends too it realllly helps!

Seriously just get rid of everything that reminds you of him. Take sometime to remember all the good times and think about him. set a time limit. when you think you have had enought and he is out of your system try to stop thinking about him. He is not the only one for you I garantee it. Lots of guys at your school may be jerks but trust me it is not all of them. Plus you can meet guys that are not from your school alone. Get yourself busy. Distract yourself. Keep telling yourself that he hurt will eventually stop. Keep reminding yourself that there are more guys out there. Train your mind. You will get over him if you put your mind to it. Are you ready to get over him? is that what you really want? or do you want to keep on living like you are now? Make up your mind. Your mind is a powerful thing and can make ANYTHING happen if you let it. Believe you are over him and you will be. Best of luck!!

Seriously just get rid of everything that reminds you of him. Take sometime to remember all the good times and think about him. set a time limit. when you think you have had enought and he is out of your system try to stop thinking about him. He is not the only one for you I garantee it. Lots of guys at your school may be jerks but trust me it is not all of them. Plus you can meet guys that are not from your school alone. Get yourself busy. Distract yourself. Keep telling yourself that he hurt will eventually stop. Keep reminding yourself that there are more guys out there. Train your mind. You will get over him if you put your mind to it. Are you ready to get over him? is that what you really want? or do you want to keep on living like you are now? Make up your mind. Your mind is a powerful thing and can make ANYTHING happen if you let it. Believe you are over him and you will be. Best of luck!!

right, i know exactly how you feel. but slowly but surely i’m getting over him, what i have done is erased him out my lie, and found things to concerntrate on such as, school life, friends, family, and the gym, it was month, and i actually felt I was slowly starting to get over him, so after i had built up enough confidence and courage to start talking to boys again, I did and I talk to them, although i don’t have a boyfriend, i have alot of boys who are friends and I don’t hesitate to get with people, because my feelings for him are gone, and if you still feel like you need to be in touch with him, stay friends with him, that way, you may become close enough to go back out, but if you want to get over him, I suggest not being friends with him because it could end up in him not liking you back, ALSO, you are not fat and ugly, i am, AND you didn’t break up because of how you look it has to do with feelings, and your not at or ugly or else why would he of dated you in the first place? I know its hard, but just give it time:)