How do I stop being so horney??

My boyfriend and I haven’t had sex in a couple of months, for the fact that I have anorexia and I don’t want him looking or touching my body! But it doesn’t mean that I’m not horney! At the minute I am extremely!

How do I stop it? I still don’t want to have sex with him, I am not ready to do it again. I have never masturbated. I just don’t understand it! Wouldn’t really know how to! So I never do it! What are other ways to make this feelng go away? Please! It is killing me!

Answer #1

The only ways I know of stopping that feeling is to satisfy it..

http://funadvice.com/r/14lteeurk9o this blog FAQ section has some detailed information on how to masturbate.

If your boyfriend wants to and you want to but the reason you’re not is that you’re just feeling self-conscious then just work on feeling more confident in your own skin. I know it’s stupid saying that to someone with clear body confidence issues ‘cause of the anorexia but maybe you can use the incentive that you and your boyfriend can go back to being intimate if you get healthy to get healthy.

I hope you’re getting help for your condition and that you get healthy soon.

Answer #2

You cannot really get “rid” of your hornyness its just something thats there, hormones.. like Emily said the best way to help your sex drive is to masturbate, if you are not having sex. It is not hard, your first time you might think its weird and it will take a while to orgasem your first time but you will find what you like and it will be much easier as you go on. I highly suggest getting a personal vibrator, or finger vibe they work wonders and it will make it much easier for you, you can order them online or even go to a adult toy store in your area and ask the store clerk to help you pick one out. there is also dildos, and g-spot vibes, but a clitoris vibe i personaly think is the best for solo, the next one would be a g-spot one. the We Vibe is amazing. its a tad expensive but it works very well and is super easy to use and clean! Its def nothing to feel embarassed about pretty much everyone does it and its a natural healthy thing to do. if you wanted to watch some “how to” videos go to a porn site and watch some of the solo masturbate videos Pornhub and Tube8 are some great sites to visit…. Have fun and be safe! I hope you are trying to fight the anorexia and become a happyer healthyer person

Answer #3

Good answer :) but sorry I have to do this..

happier healthier

pet peeve of mine! apologies (hug)

Answer #4

similar to the previous two posts, masterbation is the best way to “tame your horniness.” its not hard to do, in fact its often easier for girls to do it to themselves as opposed to a guy doing it to them because you know what feels good. just rub yourself, finger yourself, etc. You can also, as owlhumper said, purchase various sex toys to help you out with masterbating. between these three posts, hopefully you’ll be able to help yourself with the fact that you’re so horny. A great thing to do is just lay in your bed, turn the lights off, and just imagine your lover with you doing things, while you do the things to yourself. also, you can try various porn sites, and watching different videos until you find one that turns you on and allows you to release your sexual energy. hope this helped!

Answer #5

My promblem is that i don’t know if i can masturbate. I know is sounds silly, but i have never done it before. I have thought about it before, a lot, but i don’t know. Something about it puts me off. Sorry if this question is too personal, but is it satisfying? Like does it do the job? Is it as good as sex?

Answer #6

Would you like me to funmail you?

Answer #7

sure. please?

Answer #8

i guess ur right eating well doesnt really make me happy id rather be eating junk food

Answer #9

everyone feels and reacts to it differently.. you may really enjoy it, but you may not. the only way to know is to try it and see how it feels. you can funmail me if you need any more help!

Answer #10

why would you want to?

Answer #11

^read the description. do you like feeling horny when there’s nothing you can do about it? it’s uncomfortable and causes frustration

Answer #12

masturbate and give yurself an orgasm

Answer #13

..which is what everyone has already said. Well done, you can copy answers.

Answer #14

come over to my house. i cant guarantee that i can help, in fact ill prolly make it worse…but hey, we all cant win

Answer #15

come over to my house. i cant guarantee that i can help, in fact ill prolly make it worse…but hey, we all cant win

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