how to stop brother from cussing at dad?

i mean he cusess and dad wont do NOTHIN about it. i just hate that. i may talk back but i dont cuss at my parents

Answer #1

Aside from talking to him about it and letting him know how you feel, there isn’t much you can do if your parents won’t speak up to let him know that his behaviour is inappropriate. They should be speaking up about it if it bothers them.

Answer #2

You cant do nothing, if your perents dont do it, and they are the ones who should stop him, then you should not worry about it, its not your problem, your doing your part by simply not doing the same thing he does. Meaby your perents dont have a problem with it either, they dont stop him, some perents let their kids cus just so they get all the anger out. So that could be the case.

Answer #3

maybe but when i cussed oh oh oh i go the must * slap,hit of my entire life thats unfair but hey i have more respect for the people who gave me life

Answer #4

oh yea and he has no respect for him

Answer #5

Exactly! Respect your parents, Even if your brother doesn’t later he will see how disrespectful he was when he has his own children. Your parents deserve the most respect, they give you food, clothing, shelter. Respect them even tough it may be hard for you at times because when your older and if they pass away your going to regret every time you were disrespectful. Instead show them you love them by respecting them.

Answer #6

just tell him to stop or see where he hears the cussing

Answer #7

Have you ever thought that is the why your brother can control your parents. Some people don’t know how to handle anger, or are afraid of it. It seems that your parents are both afraid and can’t handle anger. At some point in their lives anger stopped them, so are effected by it.

Anger is a sign of stopping. A person who handles problems with anger wants to stop everything including himself. Just notice how he talks. I bet he uses “you can’t, you don’t, I won’t, etc.,” all the time. It’s too bad because he’s stopping an inflow from others as well as stopping an outflow by himself. Outflow and Inflow, by that I mean, his actions toward others and other things.

He will eventually get into a habit of such anger that in the future he will find himself not getting what he wants. If he does it will be trash. If it’s new he will trash it. For example: What ever he gets, girl, objects, they will be trash. If it’s something new, a girl, objects, he will trash them.

Anger means he can’t have it, or anything, or them. Let alone himself. He must be a very sad and unhappy person. Plus, people won’t want to be around him, they don’t like it. Who wants to be stopped. The best occupation for him would be a soldier of war.

Answer #8

well he wants to be a soldier….

Answer #9

Do soldiers curse? Or do you have to curse to be a soldier? I never met one that did.

Basically, soldiers are stop mechanisms. War is an outlet for them. Just like I said above, anger is to stop and war is perfect for that. Also, policemen are stoppers. They are people who want to stop. I’ve never met a policeman who didn’t want to stop. It’s their chronic emotion. Even in their conversation it’s full of can’t does, can’t have and can’t be.

Have good New Year.

Answer #10

Kick him in the face. Like you would do to a midget. Just kidding. You drop kick a midget.

Answer #11

there is a thing called the serinity prayer it goes like this, “Lord, help me to change what I can change, to accept what I cant change and the wisdom to know the difference.” It is unplesent to be around that sort of stuff but you can’t control any ones behaviour but your own. It would be nice to know what your brothers age is.

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