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How to stand my little brother?

My little brother is 11 years old and im 7 years older than him and i have a twin sister but from the minute my little brother was born we were like non-existent. Even on my and my twins birthday robby which is my little brother got presents. I already had to share my birthday then i also had to share it with him!!!!! As he got older he would come up to me and bite me for nooooooooooo reason and id push him off i was like 10 and they would yell at ME because i might hurt him!!! Not only that my sister and me were lieing on the floor watching tv and my brother came up behind my sister and grabbed both her dangling earings and ripped them out she now has two huge scares but poor robby he didnt know better. Now that were older i cant stand my brohter just him getting close to me makes me wanna punch out his lights and i dont know why most of the time he doesnt even do anything to warrant a yelling from me but i cant help but when he is near me i just for such rage and i dont know what to do…. can anyone help me?

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Answer #1

I was the same way with my brother for the longest time, I still get very annoyed with him but it’s not quite as bad now, since we go to different schools I’m not around him for most of the day so I try not to go near him at home (I stay in my room, don’t talk to him unless necessary, etc.) and I told my mom that he annoys me very often, and that sometimes I’d get upset with him without reason, and she understood so she was able to help when she seen me getting aggravated with him, hope this helps

Answer #2

Thank you

Answer #3

stand tall and bite him back

Answer #4

My brothers and I were the same way up until I turned 12. Stephen and I are 6 years apart and eris and I are 10. The reason you feel the way you do is because you and your sister were use to growing up together with no one else. Your parents were active and what not because you were their first. But the saying goes by the third or fourth they can juggle knives while dancing to conga music before you truly start to care. But since there is that HUGE age gap they started all over again with the first child syndrome. Not to mention he is a boy. You all may not have a lot in common but one day just sit and play a board game with him get to know him. He acts out for attention. I gave my brothers attention and they for the most part leave me alone. Brothers are brothers they are ALWAYS gonna be annoying but you will be surprised one day he may need you when you least expect it…that’s what happened with us.

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