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Should I be nice to them after they made fun of me?

Im bi as you can tell . last year I was made fun of for being bi this year I was made fun of again by someone else and about a week or 2 ago I found out htat the people that made fun of me and hated me are bi they are acting nice to me now that they have “come out” should I be nice to them or what

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Answer #1

Don’t put yourslef on their level and try to be the better person. I know it’s hard but if anything you understand best what they are going through. they probably did it becuase tehy were not comfortable with admiting it themselves. Try to see it from their prepective they are probably going through tons of mixed emotions right now and probaby need a friend try to forgive and forget it will make you a better person

Answer #2

you should tell them it hurt your feelings and if they still are mean to you , drop them as your friends

Answer #3

Teasing, laughing at others, making fun of others, all show immaturity. Even after those people changed and acted nice to you, who else are they criticizing and making feel bad? Doesn’t sound like anyone I’d want to hang out with. Tell them you noticed their change in behavior and thank them for that, you forgive them for being mean, but that you are looking for a better match of people to call friends and say good bye.

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