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something's wrong..

I really think that there’s something wrong with my ability to socialize.

I tend to let people down everytime they’re trying to talk to me or start a conversation with me! I was like giving them a very short and straight answer without realized it at all (especially to a guy). it was like I’m shielding my self, and never let people in. and it’s not because I don’t want to talk to them or what (infact I badly want to!), but it’s just happened – happened a lot, and I really don’t know why!

please help.. I feel so bad because of this. I’ll be very thankful for any suggestion from you.

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Answer #1

practice definitely helps. I would say practice with your friends. and by practice I mean do what breezey suggested in her answer. but with friends you will be forgiven quickly when you faulter. or even family. then start trying the same technique on people you dont know, and eventually your confidence and skill level will increase.

Answer #2

thank you so much, I’ll try it out immediately. and hope it works! :)

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