social trouble

I’ve always been the really shy one too - I know for me when a guy likes me I just like him to be calm, don’t do/say thing to show off for a girl because that’s really a turn off. Just keep your cool and be patient. Talk to her about things you’re interested in and find out things you may have in common with her. If when you’re talk to her she’s smiling a lot or seems really interested in talking to you then you could be like “would you want to go out sometime”. I live in a small town so I’ve always had trouble meeting guys so I joined a dating site and I’ve met SO many awesome locals on it and that’s how I found my boyfriend. Seems like getting to know someone over the computer is less awkward.

I know what you mean but lets say you looking at a beautiful girl and you want to talk to her. usually someone would be overwhelmed by her looks. I wouldnt want to come on too strong, just enough to get her number without sounding weird. what to talk about is the problem I guess and I dont want to ask stupid sh*t like oh so yeah hows school? sounds dumb to me. I want to talk about something that would let her know that im interested but dont want to giv it all away. you know..be smooth lol