So theres this guy

I like him and I guess he likes me but hes probably going to ask out this other girl because he doesnt want a relationship with me because he doesnt want to hurt me. How can I tell him that him being with other girls hurts too?

Answer #1

Hurt you how? Thats just one of the many lines guys use when they dont really like you. Any guy can say they like you, but proof is in his actions. The fact he doesnt want a relationship proves that. He most likely only sees you as a friend, not girlfriend material.

Answer #2

thats not true. you apparently dont understand. thanks for trying though

Answer #3

If a guy TRULY liked you, NOTHING would stand in his way of dating her!! Simple as that. If hes asking out another girl, then he obviously doesnt like you. It has nothing to do with hurt, and if you say I dont understand, then maybe you need to explain yourself better!

Answer #4

You tell him straight out. If he likes you & he is going out with another girl not to hurt you, then he is hurting her. No one deserves to get hurt. Tell him it’s not fair on her and tell him how you feel about him asking other people out when you have mutual feelings for each other. 

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