So nervous... but in the wrong way...?

Ok I will kiss, and you know, hug, be held, all the luvy dovey crap but when it comes to makeing-out and s to the e to the x, I am clueless. I get wicked nervous…because Im afraid I wont be a good kisser or my body is sexy. I mean, Im so ready for it, Im just so self concious. I really dont like my body and I dont trust myself to make out. Please, no dumb advice like: Oh everyone is beautiful or if he loves you he wont care. ITS NOT TRUE!

Answer #1

I KNOW THAT FEELING.

I was SO self conscious about my boobs, like you have NO idea. because I’m only like a b cup. and that’s all I could think about, like that no guy could ever wanna be with me because of that. but my boyfriend is amazing. and I thought it was all bull sh*t about ‘if he loves you he won’t care’ but it’s so not.

if you’re with a guy that doesn’t make you feel good about your body than he doesn’t deserve you. okay?

and when a guy has s e x he is NOT thinking about your imperfections.

if you don’t know what to do, ask him. I mean s e x is about openess, and it’ll just show him that you care about him if you ask :D

luv rach xoxox

Answer #2

I felt the exact same way you did.

you just have to practice and try it out. once you get started making out it gets simple. you just play with his tounge and he will play with yours. just make sure that you dont just sit there and leave him hanging. when you know a guy wants to make out he will try to stick his tounge in your mouth and trust me you will be able to feel it. just open your mouth and let him in and it get eaiser from there.

sex is different. its something that will be natuarl. and yeah I know if you decide to have sex with a guy he should like you for you and not care about your body right? haha we all wish. if you don’t feel se xy enough to start then try buying other under wear hot bras and underwear hair down and work out to get the body shape start rubbing lotion on you to get you all smooth and shave!!!

Answer #3

even if you aren’t great that’s fine, it’s to be expected… with no experience nobody can expect you to be great… my boyfriend of almost 8 months was my first everything… first kiss, which we just kinda skipped the little stuff and went right for making out… and I gave him my virginity after a couple months… I was worried about being bad too but my boyfriend told me I was pretty good for my first time… it all comes with practice… don’t worry too much, you’ll get yourself all worked up for nothing… just relax and do what feels right, it all come to you with time…

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