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So horny. Please help. This is nothing seedy

Im in my mid 20’s and for the last 12 months im incredibly horny all the time. Anything sets me off. My lover hasnt got the same libido as me at the moment. I’ve tried talking to her about it but she unconfident in herself at moment so I dont blame her. Im masterbating all the time but to no avail. Is there anything I can do to reduce my libido or increase me lovers.

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Answer #1

“unfortunately No, lol most men have to put up with a lack of sexual drive from their partners”

Not true, you are making an assumption here! lol.

Answer #2

yes she is very unconfident with herself. I’ve tried telling her dont be unconfident because I love her no matter what. but I guess thats just her. I’ve lost abit of that romantic touch recently but I will try and get that back. but this has been like this for roughly 2 to 3 years and im getting abit frustrated. I fancy my girl like there is no one else on this plannet I only have eyes for her and have done for the last 7 years. just wish she would return abit of that same thougt. thanks for your advice anyway much appreciated

Answer #3

Why is she unconfident in herself? Try to give her (genuine) compliments when she least expects them and try not to be so pushy about it. The more you nag her for sex the less likely she will want to do it. be more romantic - women like romance and guys doing little things for them and just being sweet. Men and women are often turned on in different ways. For men its often visual, for women it’s in the brain - she will remember things you have said and done and they will affect her mood towards you sexually.

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