What if I've cheated on my boyfriend who's at boot camp?

You sound like a very lonely, and needy girl. You keep setting yourself up for a big let down everytime you sleep with your ex, and you dont care that he is just using you. You dont need a boy to complete you. If you cant make yourself happy Hun, then no one else can!

Dont you have girlfriends, hobbies, or work to keep yourself busy? Why are you living for only one thing in your life? Boyfriends will come and go, but friends are there forever (if theyre true friends)

You are only causing more hurt, and loneliness by falling back on your ex. That is the worse mistake anyone can make. Go out and start living life like you should, and stop centering your life around boys! You cant blame anyone but yourself for how your life is going. If boys are the only thing that makes you happy, then your in trouble!

well, ditch ur ex if he’s thats horrible 2 u, dump the losr. U can survive another month or so just keep urself busy, can u write 2 ur boyfriend tlk 2 him? sounds like ur suffering big time from him being far apart but dont let ur needs get in the way of ur thinking cuz im sure he’d be devastaed to find out(not to be harsh) just keep urself busy call ur friends go out somewere.

Well, in your age it is not so terrible if a girl is attracted to two or three boys, and when one of them is far the other one will do her. Ok, do not care about that your ex does not behave like a gentleman, at least you have got what you wanted, you were kind with him, and if he was not that that is his problem and not yours. And let’s hope that your b/f also found some fun during this 4 month.

You got what you deserved… now all that remains is for you to get dumped…