Slutty Sister.

My Sister, Shaylee, Is 11. She Is Like Really, Well… Slutty To Be Blunt. She Acts Like She’s Wayy Older Than She Is. Like The Guy She Is Dating Is 15.. Hellooo That’s 4 Years!! I Am Pretty Sure They’ve Had Sex Too :S. She Isn’t Even A Teenager Yet And She Wears Like Really Skimpy Clothes And Sh*t. Well Anywho.. I Was Wonderin Why She’s Like This? I Am Umm Normal. Lol And So Is Her Other Sis Reegin And Payton Is Wayy Older, So WHY IS SHE SUCH A SLUT?!?!

Answer #1

I’m Going To Talk To Her. I Have Parents. My Mom And My Stepdad Live With Us And My Dad And My Stepmom Only Live 2 Hours Away. But My Mom Says She’s Just Growing Up. She Doesn’t Really Notice It Because There’s 3 Other Daughter’s And They Seem To Be The Same.. Well Ish. But We’re Older. I Am Going To Talk To Her Right Now In Fact :) Thanks Everyone!! <33

Answer #2

Well… I think that she wants attention. But you as her older sister, need to step in. Just be blunt. Hahaha. Really though. Just go up to her and be like… Why are you acting like such a slut? Do you WANT a bad reputation?

Answer #3

So what if she is 11? I know its too early to have a boyfriends, but its TOO TOO TOO early to have sex on age 11?? Thats TOO much!!! And ya, its cause she wants to act like a grown up person.. Date and stuff like that… She wants to be like her bigger sisters. Still, I think you should show her how much she means to you and that its no nessesery to wear those slutty stuff on her..

Answer #4

Have a parent or competent adult role model intervene and put a stop to outrageous behavour.

Answer #5

dont blame your sister, go smack the f.ucking pervert boyfriend… holy s.hit, serisouly 15?? id smakc the sh.it out of that guy

Answer #6

Awwh, SHAYLEE? Really? Wow.

Answer #7

BWAHAHAHHAHA. lmao. hahha. omg 11 with 15.. @_@ maybe when im 11 I even hvent hv crush yett.. wohaa. hahha maybee. cuzz she has like 3 older sister?? shes jealous that you guys already grown up and she tries to follow you guyss… you knoww. I have an older sister.. and I alwayss follow her althooo the things that she did is not for my age yet. hehehee.. but OMG 11???!!!

Answer #8

It sounds to me as tho your sister is searching for male attention…in the only way she knows how (TV, Movies, etc) have been her “guide”…

I saw in your profile that you are 16…it’s time to be a “true” big-sister, and protect her by going to your parents and letting them in on what she’s up to. She may need counciling (family counciling)…where you ALL go in order to get her back on track.

I don’t think you’d be asking us, if you were feeling very good about keeping her secrets…I’m sure you’re suffering from torn loyalties…however, to TRULY be loyal to your sister…to do what is the best thing before something awful befalls her, you MUST talk to your parents. It’s a burden to have to do this, but it’s also the “adult” thing to do…

granny phrannie

Answer #9

Your sister is dating a 15 year old and she is 11? Where are your parents? Both at home, single parent family?

I’m a little old fashioned I suppose, but 11 year olds aren’t dating. And they certainly aren’t dating someone 15. At that age they are going to pool parties and the malls WITH friends.

What do your parent(s) have to say about this? Have you sat down and discussed it with them or your older sisters?

What ever is happening. It sounds like you have your priorities in line. You be your own responsible person no matter what.

Answer #10

I am probably old enough to be your grandmother and have to say I am appalled at this. Do you girls have no parents at home? Surely they see what your sister is doing, and don’t they buy her clothes for her? Geez, this is just wrong. If your parents don’t seem to see this. As her older sister, you need to sit them down and talk about your sister’s behavior with them. …Please, do this, OK?

Answer #11

Well for me when I was 11 or so I loved to do what my sisters did. But I wasnt that much involved with what they taked about.. im 14 now and ya aware of a lot. But maybe your sister might over here somethings you guys talk about. Seperate her from what you guys do. I’ve now seen what my sisters do.. ones 17 and 19 and if I was around them at your sisters age I wouldnt be surprised if I tried to grab what your sister did because of your age compared to hers.. hope it helps! :)

Answer #12

I think it’s a matter of her feeling like she doesn’t have enough going for her, so instead of being a normal child she feels like she has to get her attention from older guys to make her feel better about herself. you need to talk to her about the good things and that she has more than just her body

Answer #13

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Answer #14

tell her to come over to my house

Answer #15

it could be because she feels insecure about herself. especailly if you and your other sisters are really pretty, or have boyfriends or have had a lot of them.

Answer #16

I’m not a perfect writer, but, I wish most of the people writing on this site would spend a lot more time paying attention in English class. Your little sister probably wants more attention from her older sisters/parents because she’s the youngest, she feels left out, she probably wants to be more “sexy” & have more “romantic” fun. What nobody has mentioned is that at Approx. her age (10-13) the hormones kick in & start flowing through our bodies & everything changes. What you are probably witnessing is her sexual awakening & she needs tender loving care, guidance & education. It seems a little odd that a 15 year old boy is interested in her “romantically” & dating. My guy friends & relatives are usually interested in girls about their own age because they are more developed & can relate to social stuff more equally. He may be O.K., but, probably needs to watched discretely & carefully so that things do not suddenly get out of control for her. She is becoming interested in things that are normal for her, but, which she does not have the skills to deal with properly yet. Everyone in our family is a nudist, as are a lot of our friends, so we girls (my 3 sisters & I, ages 13-19) are not uncomfortable with being nude around others and we usually go out braless & thongless under nice, but, revealing clothes because we are more comfortable & we were blessed with & have been told we are very attractive (Some of the guys call us living works of art! Too cute.). HOWEVER, our parents spent a lot of time giving us the loving guidance, attention & education about health & safety that are the tools we needed to have in order to be safe, healthy & have a sex life that is that way also. Right? Your little sister is lucky to have older sisters who hopefully love her & you are fortunate to be able to witness her blossoming like a beautiful flower. Your parents may not be paying attention for some reason (It happens) & still think that she is a very little kid. You older girls & other things in life may have their attention, but, eh, hellooo….? Guess what folks another little girl is starting to turn into a young woman. As someone else said, you & your parents need to guide her with clothes & behavior because someone else “out there” may perceive her differently than she expects & behave differently than she expects them to. Be good, do good & love one another. I hope that helps. Love, Another sister.

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