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I have a boyfriend been dating for a long time he is younger than me by one year. I live with him and his dad. Our relationship has been good but recently he has been annoying me a lot and things would annoy me more. To the point where I don’t wanna live with him I am planning on moving out. I always tried to make things work in the relationship always have but I feel like im the only one. 3 months later I met this one guy who I started texting talking to. Once we hung out for the first time I felt this instant connection with him I haven’t felt with anyone before. I told him stuff it took me month or years to tell my closest friends. Took me four- six month to tell my boyfriend. He gets me and I get him by the end of the night I fell for him. It took me one week to fall for my man. I don’t know what to do or what to think. Also this guy supports my dream where my boyfriend doesn’t. I feel like owe my boyfriend and his family so much for helping out to the point where I don’t think I can leave him cause of it.

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Answer #1

Well I think you owe your boyfriend honesty and his family too. It’s understandable to get annoyed with your bf after living together, that’s normal, trust me I live with my boyfriend and we bicker sometimes too haha. But for you to start talking to another guy and start to become infatuated with someone else is not fair to your bf or your family. You should break up with your boyfriend and move out….

Answer #2

eh honest opinion you should be single….. because its bad enough that you have a bf and you like someone else thats cheating like emotionally its not fair to you or your bf….and i think every relationship goes through that like that point were you bug each other alot… because when you first start liking someone its kinda that honey moon stage everything is so new and you like him so much buttt when you get past that point you really see what bugs you about him and sticking with him after that shows you love him it shows that even when things are bad you still wanna be with him and only him…. but thats not the case for you and being that you should move on….

Answer #3

I agree, it is cheating.

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