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sisters controling boyfriend

my sisters boyfriend tells her what to do. she listens to him. he is 10 years older then her. she just got a car and she has to ask his permission to go anywhere. even after my mom says it’s ok. she isn’t aloud to take me five minutes down the road to a friends house but she can take him to the other side of the county to by weed. he freaked out when she took me to the hospital because my cyst exploded on my ovary and I almost died. but I told her that he is controling her but she doesn’t believe it. he told her that I was a bad influence on her and she needs to stay away from me. he has 2 kids and doesn’t even attempt to pay child support or anything, what can I do to show her what he is like.

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this is a very sensitive situation, you do NOT want to lose her trust talking negatively about him, it can back fire and you will lose to him hands down, just give a sensible remark every now and then when he makes a mistake. other than that you need to leave her to fall in her own mistakes and be there to hold her up when she needs you. every person needs to go through the challenges of life on their own till they wake up from their situation and find you there ready to support them.

remember, dont say anything if you have nothing good to say. hence silence is golden.

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