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shy, yet my friends aren't and they have boyfriends...?

Okay I wish I had more confidence, how do I seem more out there and available? I had chances to get a boyfriend even in 7th grade and 8th, but I was too shy, the same this year I’m a freshmen in highschool just I’m so nervous because iI’m afraid people won’t like me and I feel like a loser because people are like are you lesbian because you never went out with a guy, but I’m 14, I’m to skinny too. I think I’m really ugly. Even my own mother says I have low self esteem..

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Answer #1

You sound like you do have low self esteem. People think I’m gay because I’ve never gone out with anyone. I’m 17 too, that’s what makes it embarassing! Try joining a club. You probably aren’t ugly, as honestly, there are not many girls who are. Being skinny isn’t an issue, so stop worrying about it. No issue with being fat either.

Try seeing a guidance counselor.

Answer #2

Don’t listen to them,have a friend of yours help you out with the shyness,some boys do like shy girls. Just have a friend work with you on that and you should be fine.

Answer #3

that’s okay to not have a boyfriend at 14. I had my first boyfriend at 15, and it wasn’t all that great. just wait. everyone will have their chance one day. don’t listen to your friends. Most of the people I know havent even dated yet and they’re 16+. Just because you’re waiting for the right guy does not mean you’re a lesbian. :]

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