Should we get married?

well we went to school together before we dated. then dated 4 months and I moved. hes in va beach and im an AL. we see each other a week or two…sometimes 3 weeks at a time every month. so we know each other even on a daily basis.

Ultimately you need to do what makes you happy not your parents, its your life and the worst thing you can do is look back and have regrets. Saying that you are just eighteen and havent been together that long and you are talking about the most serious commitment you can ever make. There is no need to rush into anything. If you really want to take your relationship to the next step maybe move in together and but into a place with 2 bedrooms so you can still have some space.

Alright I will answer this the best I can, its a difficult question. But heres the thing, before you get married you should definatly move in together or at least closer to eachother before you make any irrational desicions especially one that would get you in trouble with your family. Right now you think you love him so dearly.. I was in a long distance relationship for two years before the one Im in now, we lived three hours away from eachother, when I moved in with him I found out a lot more about him.. basically I saw his true colours.. I was your age aswell.

My adivce to you is get closer and get to know eachother on an every day basis. Hope I helped a little bit.