Should we "do it?"

Okay. So me and this guy have been dating for over five months. And we have sorta talked about sex before.. But agreed not to until we are both ready. Im thirteen and a virgin and he is almost fourteen and is a virgin. Most of his friends make fun of him becuase he is the only virgin out of all of them. Sex really seems strange to me. But could be something… Fun. What are some tips to make your first time special. And do you think we should do it???

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Answer #1

Not just that but you guys are so YOUNG. I understand there is plenty of kids now around 13 that have sex, but your throwing away something you wish you would have kept.

Think about it do you really want this guy to be your first? your first is just one of them weightless moments where you feel like your walkin on clouds. The reason is, is because it is the first time your engaging into something like this.

Sure you can go for it if you dont care about the guy and just want to lose it so you can be “Cool” or whatever, but if you really loved someone you would wait a while into you found the right one so you can offer yourself purely to them alone. All I’m saying is it would be nice if you would wait until the moment felt really really good instead of a ok lets get this over with thing.

Answer #2

no pls my dear don’t do it reasonable guy’s take gal’s who have lost there virginity 4 slots so maintain your statues and give it more time,virginity is like a balloon one prick and it’s gone forever

Answer #3

you want to have sex becausehis friend makes fun of him? No I honestly dont think you should have sex because he doesnt want to get teased. Sex is a big deal, you need to be prepared for consequences (like getting pregnant), and you’re obviously not ready for that. Also you can’t go back to holding hands… It will change your relationship… You should wait till you’re ready and prepared, not to get his friends off his back…

Answer #4

Don’t have sex for that reason. When you are ready to have sex, you will know it. Since you are doubting it, I really don’t think you are ready. Don’t do it to have “fun”… if you want to have fun then go bowling or something like that. In order for the first time to be “special” it has to be the right time, and I don’t think this is a good time for you quite yet. Virginity is such a special thing, once its gone you cant get it back. A lot of people tend to regret losing their virginity when they did, so avoid making that mistake.

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