Should I write him a letter?

In your very first question you wanted you ex-boyfriend back and you seemed like you still loved him, now you seem like you dont care that much anymore… How did you get over him so quickly?

this is a respone to danielles question. I am still in love with him and yes I want him back and no I am not over him yet. But the advise that I had gotten from my other question was to be his friend and be their for him. So I am going to try that approach and see what happends. I am going to be mature about this and be his friend and not let this hole delema bother me. I did how ever develop a friendship with his girlfriend so thats why I wanted to write him a letter becuase I want to be friends with him but I want to be friends with her and I don’t want him upset and mad about it

his is a reponse to danille. I still want him back and yes I do love him and no I am not over him yet. But the advise that I had gotten from someone else is be his friend and be their for him. So I am going to try that approach and see were things end up. I am upset that he has a new g/f what girl wouldn’t but I am going to be mature about this and show him that I am not upset and not let it bother me and try being his friend

I think there are several things that you should not do. First, to avoid drama you probably do not need to be friends with his new girlfirend. It is cool to speak but do not be “friends” cuz I can already see that blowing up. Also, do not write him a letter b/c you never know he might show it to his girlfriend and knowing females she might start thinking that you still have feelings for him b/c you are goin thru so much trouble. Feel me? Pull him aside one day and tell him how you feel. Keep being his friend and be there for him. Also, he needs to see that you are moving on that might make him realize that he still has feelings for you..