Should I use this name?

Well, I was pregnant but I miscarried and me and my husband wanted to name the baby xylia. Soo now, were having another baby, should we name it xylia? Or is that wrong? :(

Answer #1

no don’t name it that because it will always be a reminder and you cant replace the child no matter what…try a middle name

Answer #2

I wouldnt becuase it might remind you of the miscarriage you had :/

Answer #3

I don’t see why not.

Answer #4

It’s totally up to you. No One can make decisions like that for you :)

Answer #5

There is no right or wrong. I’d explore your reasons for why you want to do this… If you’re ok with it, then it is up to you

Answer #6

my friend lost her baby to she had named it jake,than a year later fell pregnant again and named him TYLER JAKE I think I would use it as the middle name to

Answer #7

Why should it be wrong?

The first baby never happened, so it wasn’t technically “named”. It wasn’t as though you delivered the baby, named it, and it died after - that would be a little awkward.

The name you have chosen is meant to be the name of your born baby…use it, there’s nothing wrong with it.

Answer #8

That is up to you - although in my opinion - every child should have their own name. Although you miscarried - it was still your child none the less and I think that you should remember you child by that name and give this one it’s own name.

Answer #9

If you realy want that name maybe name it xyalia with a suffix. Other than that I would choose another name. Because like said above the name might remind you of your miscarriage and every one of your children should have their own individual name, wether they are her or not.

Answer #10

how far gone were you when you miscarried? either way it is entirely up to you and your partner. if you were only a matter of weeks and didn’t consider the baby to be a child yet then I don’t really see an issue but if you did then my advice would be no chose a different name or rearrange the letters to form a different name

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