should I trust him?

yeah he does have feelings for her on some level. i think even tho he has you, he always liked the fact that she also wanted him and he had someone else there to tell him she wanted him. Now that she has finally started moving on and dating someone else he feels like he has lost his back up in a way. All this time and he still had contact with her is very uncomfortable for you and you should tell him to do something about it becos according to him he has moved on with you, now she has moved on from him, there is no reason for them to be talking still.

Dear Ball, This is very confusing….I know. You think why does he even have any feelings at all towards her when he loves you….right? The thing is this….You may be so close to him that he is talking to you like a best friend….Which is good. He can talk to you about anything and this is one of those things. If his guy friends were around he would have probably said the same thing to them….But he probably would have ended it with how happy he is NOW with you. In other words, it’s an EGO thing, not that he is egotistical but it is a shot to a guys ego……I believe thats all there is to this one. If you have any more questions….fun mail me….OK? I hope this helps. Familycoach

She still has a part of him that he cant seem to let go! I think he still has some feelings for her yet, or he wouldnt be dealing with hurt and jealousy! You have to trust him enough to know that he loves, and wants you …not her! If he didnt, he would be with her!