Should I tell him...

Me and my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years broke up about three weeks back. We were broken up for a week and he came back and begged for me back {after he broke up with me and broke my heart} so in that week we were broken up I hooked up w/ another guy. I know it sounds bad but I was in a horrible place and I felt like my whole world crashed down dn I went out with some of my friends and these guys came up to us in the mall and invited us to chill w/ them and me and my one friend went w/ em and ended up going to one of ems house and we just sat and talked {no drinkin or nything just chillin} and we played TorD and I ended up makin out w/ the on I though was really hott and then we did a few other things {not infront of my friend} we DID NOT HAVE SEX but we fooled around. Should I tell my b/f about this? we have back to having issues again so I dont think now I would tell him but if I were to eventually should I? is it even worth it? I do still talk to the guy and he wants to hook up again but I told him no bc I have a boyfriend but now im having feelings that I want to w/ him bc my boyfriend is treatin me like shit. but ill post that in a nother question for now..

Should I tell my boyfriend about a random hook up I had while we were broken up?

Answer #1

NO !!! if you wernt dating your boyfriend at the time then dont! If he asks fine b honest but why say anything if its uneccessarty? If your boyfriend is treating you like crap tell him! Best thing you can do and if he carries on tell him to fluff off. you need to respect one another and thats that.

As for the other guy.. Loyalty is hard to come by… flirting via messages etc is also cheating as your forming a love/horny bond with someone else. how wud you feel if your boyfriend did that to someone else… gutted I wud assume?

Babe tbh its no big deal if you guys wernt together! thats my opinion and if he was curious he’d have asked… you and your love need to sit down and chat - clear the air… you guys will feel much better and think of the make up sex woo yeah!!!

xxx

Answer #2

We have a bunch of times and hes saying that I invade his privacy bc he does text some girl alll the time and locks his phone when im around so I cant read em and he said I invaded his privacy when I looked in his phone when he left it unlocked one day

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