Should I tell him?

So, I was talking to my best friend, who is a guy and he was like do you ever finger yourself? And I was like umm, why do you wanna know so bad, and he was like wait nevermind you would never do that, and I was like you dont know that and he was like, I dont think you would ever do that? And I don’t know if I wanna tell him or not, but I really do finger myself. What should I say to him? I feel like I would seem like a slut if I just told him, but I dont want him to keep denying it?

Answer #1

I don’t see wee why you need to. It sounds like he’s trying to goad you into telling him. He already knows or assumes.

I would ask him to back off slightly. It sounds like there might be some chemistry on one or both of your parts, but when its in a “friends” relationship, that can be problematic. If there some kind of potential romance, pursue it. If that can’t be done, and if he can’t suppress himself, it might be best to break off contact. It would be hard, but bad things result from situations like these when left alone.

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