Should I talk to her about it ?

I went out with a girl I met on holaday but we split up. I still talk to her on msn. She has a new boyfriend and I looked at his a social site profile and there was pics of them together but recently she has put one of them kissing on ther profile and I dont know what I should do. Just seeing the picture made me log of msn and I didnt talk to her for 3 days the only reason I started talking to her is bacause were still friends and I didnt want her to thing somthing was up what should I do ? Should I say I saw it and talk to her about it or just lose contact with her? I feel angry with her but also let down and upset

Answer #1

It’s normal to feel disappointed and down when you see someone you really care or cared about with someone else, making out or such, wether it’s on a picture or real. You have to accept that the two of you are not going out anymore and that she found a new guy. She isn’t doing to provoke you or want you to pay attention that strongly to it. She is happy about her new boyfriend, and you should try to be happy for her too although it may seem very difficult.

There is nothing to talk about with her, she shouldn’t hide it that she got a new guy, only because her ex feels angry about it. I am sorry if it sounds hard, but trust me when I say I know how you feel. Give it some time and try not to think so much about it, accept that she is just a friend and she can do what she wants…

If you make a fuss about it you could get into a discussion that would lead to a seperation between the two of you as friends, or at least it would never be the same between you again. I doubt you’d want that as well.

If you talk with her and she mention anything bout her boyfriend, try and change the conversation into something else… I am not saying you will, but when I talked with someone whom I liked, and she started to talk about her boyfriend, I got very emotionally angry and just wished I could yell my frustrations about it into her face… and that is not a feeling you wanna have… you’ll regret everything you’re gonna let out…

Hope ya’ll get over her soon mate, cheers

Answer #2

Yea but its. The fact that she always says she loves me and gives me xxx and acts as if we didnt break up and we still have naughty conversations shoul I just tell her not to act as if were still going out.

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