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Should I stay with Boyfriend of 2 1/2 years?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years, and I do love him, however lately, I have been contemplating whether or not we should be together.

We have similar values when it comes to politics/religion (lack thereof) and he is very supportive of me.

However, he is unmotivated, he stopped going to school when we started dating, and every semster says he is going to register but doesn’t. I am an honor student and am extremely motivated. I worry that when I graduate next year, we are just going to be in completely different places. It doesn’t bother me that he isn’t in school, its just that he says he wants to so bad but doesn’t do anything about it.

Also, there are things about him that upset me. We don’t see eachother often, maybe twice a week, but we talk constantly. He’ll cancel plans a lot. But I trust him completely, I know he’s not cheating on me. It just frustrates me cause I can’t trust plans with him.

We both get along great with each other’s families, and enjoy spending time together, its just that lately when I don’t see him I wonder why I’m even with him.

I just feel as though our relationship has stopped growing, we haven’t progressed in probably a year and a half, and its upsetting.

I don’t know…I guess I just need some advice.

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Answer #1

Confront him with everything you posted here.

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