Should I stay or should I go?

Dear trinity17, Have you tried counselling? You need to approach this with the intent that you have done everything you can to keep this relationship intact. It takes a lot more than this to leave a marriage so I will assume there is more to it. When he is rude to someone you simply say this isn’t my opinion…he’s on his own with that. Do this every time you are in his company and he is rude. Never say you can’t get out of a relationship…it boils down to you don’t want to “really”. Stats will show children are much more stable and happy in a one parent family without argument and tension. There are many resources: social assistance, family resources etc. So I think you need to reexamine this realationship…is it just his rudeness to others, is there more to it? What can you do to change the situation. You are responsible to take action in your problems and start looking at what you can do not how he is the problem. Sue…good luck

It’s impossible for you to have been married for almost a decade. You’re only 24 or 25. Which means you would’ve had to get married when you were 14-16. And without your parents’ permission, you can’t legally do that.And I seriusly doubt that your parents would give you permission for that. So please tell me how old you REALLY are so that I can give you advice.