Should I stay or should I go?

My boyfriend cheated on me for retaliation, when he assumed that I cheated on him. He found out I didnt cheat but its too late,she’s pregnant. Do you think we should go to counseling or do you think that option is out the window?

Answer #1

leave him…

its clear enough what you must do or the problems will build up…

Answer #2

I agree with informer.

Think of it this way:

  1. He feels the need for retaliation - not a good way of dealing with problems in a relationship and shows a major level of immaturity on his part
  2. He didn’t even have proof of your guilt before he decided to retaliate - irresponsible and quick to distrust
  3. This other girl is now pregnant - one thing you don’t want to be part of is a “love triangle” when there is a child involved…things get very complicated, not to mention that child will be a constant painful reminder of his infidelity
Answer #3

I feel bad for you, anyone should know the answer, but when you are hurt and upset things dont seem as clear. Leave him. You deserve some one better.

Answer #4

thats no way of treating you but if you love him and you can live to trust each other, give it a go. it won’t harm if it does not last, it would just mean you feel you made the right decision.

Answer #5

Well if it was my case I would dump him despite if I still love him or like him or have feelings for him. But him having a kid with this other chick well that complicates things. If he loves you than he has to dill with that kid first. Than you. But the advice I give you is leason to youre heart. Your heart will tell you what to do. Hope I helped.

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