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Should I play it cool with my female friends?

I’m the type who will fall in love with any girl who pays me the slightest bit of attention. The problem is, after we become friends and I express desire to become something more, I am invariably turned down. I guess I always mistake their attention for actual interest in me. So my question is: How do I get women like this to like me back? Should I not be so friendly and open with them, and instead try to act cool and disinterested? I know having self-confidence helps, but it’s difficult to maintain when I’m rejected so much.

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Answer #1

I bet the girls feel kinda let down when you tell them you like them,cuz honeslty,a lot of girls are clueless that its hard for a guy to just be friends.I’de say ya,play it cool,work on who you are,but dont be too dramtic and get cocky,that’s just annoying.If the girls are worth it they’ll notice you have a great character of a man worth dating/marrying :)

Answer #2

There’s no sure way to get women because we’re all different, and we like different things. For example, call me crazy, but a man with no self confidence drives me wild! So I would really suggest just being yourself. You sound very nice, and I am sure you’ll find someone who likes you for you before too long.

Don’t rush it and don’t be desperate though. If you’re desperate, you’ll give girls the impression that you don’t really even like them, you just want to date someone and don’t care who it is. People are different, so some people might go for that in a guy, but most people don’t want that in a relationship. :)

Good luck!

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