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Should I pick my crush over my family and friends?

Theres this boy who I fancy and have done for about a year who wants me to go and spend a week at his in the summer. I really want to go because I never get to meet him and he is home alone for the week so we could spend some good time together. The problem is my friends dont think I talk to him anymore because he has messed me around before and I promised them I had deleted his number and so I will have to lie to them if I do go to his. I will also have to lie to my parents because they wouldnt let me stay over the week at his and so their is so much to risk just to go to his. Usually I would put my friends and family first but I really like this guy and need to see him but I just dont know what to do? please help

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Answer #1

family comes first, don’t risk anything. (:

Answer #2

I think you need to look after number 1 , yeh this lad might have been the one who you want to spend the rest of your life with but he sounds like he has changed for the worse and only wants what is right for him. You should always put your family first, and if your still living at home you should be extra carefull.

I think if you want to still be mates with this lad then that is fine but that is where the line is drawn until he grows up a bit.

Answer #3

I think its ok for you to see him but definetly not the whole week. your friends are looking out for you, if he messed with you before, who says hes not going to do it again? if you really need to see him then just hang out with him once but you’re going to feel so guilty if you lie to your parents and friends so honestly I wouldn’t do it

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