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Should I move on?

So I like this guy a lot and I have liked him for about 8 months and we have become really good freinds. I told him about 3 months ago that I like him. and I asked him if he would ever be in a relationship with me and he nevr really answered he just said that doesnt want a girlfriend rite now but he doesnt want to loose me.. and when ever im with him hes always flirty and really nice.. I just cant move on I tried.. some of my friends say I should make a move on him.. but I dont think I should because that would really affect our friendship if thats not what he wants…and ill feel really stupid if im denied what should I do?!?!

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Answer #1

if he likes you, hed tell you. so just continue being his friend and look for some other guys. it may help to give you and this guy friend some space while your trying to get over him. think of all his negatives and some other guys’ positives. good luck :]

Answer #2

You made your move, you told him your feelings and he said he doesnt want a relationship. It has been a while, and I think he does like you and does want a relationship with you in the future but he just isnt ready. So be patient, if you make another move on him you’ll look unpatient and desperate. Respect what he said, trust me, it will feel a lot better when it comes from him when he is ready becos you’ll know he truley wants you and is ready, but if you push it and push it and make moves you’ll confuse him and may push him away. Just hang in there and be patient.

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