Should I let my feelings for this guy overcome me?

So I was with this guy over 8 months and yesterday I found out he was saying things to another girl so I broke up with him [trying to make long story short] so I hooked up with this guy, not like all the way of course because I’m not easy like that but im really starting to develop some feelings for this guy and if you know anything about me I’m the kind of person if I’m with a guy that I like I sorta fall for him quick but this guy, I don’t know. I like him better than anyone else I’ve been with or even had a crush on so my advice im looking for is, should I let my feelings over come me and fall for him or should I keep my guard up and set my feelings aside?

Answer #1

does the guy like u? if he just wants to mess around then i would set your feelings aside! but if u tlk to em bout it then u find out how he feels bout u & if he has strong feelings too then go for it!

Answer #2

it is ok to allow your feelings but, know what you are doing and stay focused on your relationship goals. and if you do not have any get some before you open up more keep things in line or things may not go as you may have liked and then disaster hits okay! have fun 8)

Answer #3

Well, you should do neither. You are young and there will be a LOT of guys who come and go and they are all wonderful in their own ways (if you choose good guys, that is). There will always be a special guy or special connection or something in the future. Just enjoy his company and be your own person with your own goals and hobbies.

Don’t walk around with armour on–that’s not attractive and will lead you to be a little nutty.

And certainly don’t constantly throw caution to the wind whenever you feel like it. Your heart has value to it, and therefore you should not always be so free to give it away.

Make sense? Be smart.

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